Most approaches to couples therapy are 'helpful' at first, but ultimately end in disappointment because they are all talk without real change. 

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This is NOT because there is something wrong with you (or your partner). Talk therapy will relieve some distress - but there is more to creating a fulfilling love life.  

Intimate relationships require a practice of foundational intimacy skills - communication that accounts for the verbal and non-verbal messages.

 

You need a special kind of map and compass to navigate the psychological wilderness of relationships.  

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Unfortunately, very few people can teach or mentor these skills.  WHY? Because only 3% of couples are successful at achieving epic romance (aka.'happy').  School teachers, parents, siblings and friends didn't/don't know these skills (yet!).

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You have a sense that if you just had the missing piece, you would feel so much more love and openness with each other. You could have more fun & closeness together instead of being tense, guarded, distracted and serious most of the time.

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You know it's possible because...

you’ve had plenty of moments being totally in love & the best of friends

- trusting, loving, and laughing together.

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Your relationship CAN be romantic and stable.  

But there is 5 elements of couple culture that you must get good at: trust, respect, curiosity, appreciation and attunement.  It's more of a 'dance' than a discussion.

 

If you’re ready to become the best version of yourself and create the deepest, most fulfilling love possible, then Maps2Intimacy is ready for you.